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Allah, the Exalted, says, “And there are among men those who purchase idle talk in order to mislead others from Allah’s path without knowledge, and who throw ridicule upon it. For such there will be a humiliating punishment.” (31:6)
Ibn Jareer At-Tabari, in his Jaamiul Bayaan, mentions that the interpreters of the Quraan differed as to the meaning of the term {lahwal hadeeth} (idle talk) which occurs in the above-quoted verse. Their views regarding its meaning can be formulated into three basic categories.
The first category defines the term {lahwal hadeeth}: (a) singing and listening to songs, (b) the purchasing of professional male or female singers and (c) the purchase of instruments of amusement; namely, the drum (tabl). The elements of this category revolve around reference to the blameworthy usage of instruments of idle amusement, in short, music and song. This view was held by a number of companions such as Ibn Masood, Jaabir and Ibn Abbaas. It is related that the former was questioned regarding the meaning of the verse under discussion to which he replied, “I swear by the One other than Whom there is no god that it refers to singing [ghinaa]”; he repeated it three times to emphasize his position. It is related that Ibn Abbaas said it referred to “singing and the like.” Jaabir is reported to view its meaning to signify singing and listening to songs. This general view pointing to censure of music and song was also held by a great number of taabi’een, such as Ikrimah, Mujaahid, Makhool and Umar bin Shuayb, to name only a few.
The second category of interpretation centers around the idea that {lahwal hadeeth} indicates conversation inviting to or consisting of shirk (polytheism). This view was the view of some tafseer scholars from the generation after the companions, such as Ad-Dahaak and Abdur-Rahmaan bin Zayd bin Aslam.
The third category conveys the meaning of all false talk, actions or deeds, whose nature it is to divert people from Allah’s path and from His worship and remembrance. For example, Al-Aaloosi relates that Al-Hasan Al-Basri was reported as saying that {lahwal hadeeth} includes “everything which distracts one from worship and the remembrance of Allah such as whiling the night away in idle conversation or entertainment, jokes, superstitous tales, songs and the likes thereof.” Al-Aaloosi supports this view, saying that the verse should be interpreted to include all such blameworthy words and deeds which divert one from Allah’s path.
After having conveyed the previously-mentioned categories of tafseer, Ibn Jareer relates the commentary of Ibn Zayd about the verse, {And there are among men those who purchase idle talk in order to mislead others from Allah’s path without knowledge, and who throw ridicule upon it.} Ibn Zayd said, “The people referred to [in this verse] are the disbelievers. Don’t you see that it says [in the immediately following verse], {And when Our revelations are recited to such a person he turns away in pride as if he hadn’t heard them, as if there was a deafness in his ears.} The people of Islam are not as those described here, although some say the verse refers to Muslims [as well]. The verse refers to the disbelievers who pitched their voices in a tumultuous clatter in order to drown out the hearing of the Quraan.”
At-Tabari concludes by offering his own weighted preference for the general, inclusive meaning as conveyed in this final category. He states, “The most correct view regarding the meaning of {lahwal hadeeth} is the one which indicates every form of conversation which diverts from Allah’s path - the hearing of which has been prohibited by Allah or His Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him). This is because the statement by Allah, the Exalted, is general and inclusive, and does not exclude certain forms of conversation. Therefore, His statement remains in its general context unless proof which specifies it appears; and singing and polytheism [shirk] are included in this general statement.”
From what has preceded, it is to be understood that a specific or exclusive meaning such as singing or shirk cannot be proven; rather, the verse and particularly the phrase {lahwal hadeeth} should be interpreted as anything which diverts one from Allah’s path. Music, singing, etc. (since they occupy people’s attention and distract them from Allah’s worship and remembrance and invite to His disobedience), no doubt fall under the general censure, blame and rebuke cast upon those who fall into this category. However, this verse is not itself an explicit, unequivocal proof for the prohibition of music, singing, etc. Rather, its prohibition is conditional and incidental as stated above. Thus, this issue requires other external proofs which are both clear and categorical, so as not to leave the least bit of doubt in the mind of the conscientious, truth-seeking believer. In order to achieve such a lofty, yet absolutely vital objective, it is necessary to turn to the second source of the Islamic shari’ah, the authentic sunnah of Allah’s Messenger (upon whom be blessings and peace).
As you can see, this verse of the Quran is referring to music, among other things, which distracts one from worship and the path of Allah. Bear in mind that Allah does not forbid something for us without good reason. He does not forbid something for one group of people and then allow it for another. So to say that the one who listens to music and their mind goes astray is their own personal problem is incorrect. Allah does not say that this prohibition does not apply to those stronger in faith; rather, it is applied to everyone. It bears repeating that Allah does not forbid something for us without good reason.
If the prohibition of Music from the perfect words of Allah was good enough for several of the great scholars and for Ibn ‘Abaas (the man who the prophet made du’a for to be blessed with knowledge of the Quran-and he was) to swear three times that it refers to music, then we should be satisfied with that and not make exceptions for ourselves and others.
It takes time to give up music. Trust me, I know. But there is no use in leading others into haram things while you struggle with justifying it for yourself. You said yourself it is haram, so leave it at that.









