Sadaqa/zakat for Muslimahs - Please add to the list

Starting a list of charities focused on providing Muslimahs with hijabs, abaya, khimar, niqabs etc.- anything to help them out in creating an Islamic wardrobe.

  • Muslimah FSOT Network   - A for sale or trade group that specializes in mostly Islamic clothing and other related items for women. The prices have been very low and trading is encouraged. Free items also encouraged. 
  • Muslimahs Covered with Care - An organization solely devoted to providing Muslimahs with care packages of Islamic clothing and other goods. I believe clothing and cash donations are accepted. 
  • Scarves for Sisters - An organization solely devoted for sending out donated hijabs and other clothing to Muslimahs.
  • Hadiyah’s Abayas - A small business that sells handmade abaya and hijabs. This is a link to the donation page where 100% of the donations go to sewing and shipping out abaya to Muslimahs in need. Giveaways are done through the tumblr page hadiyahsabayas.tumblr.com and suggestions/requests for sisters in need are done through the ask. 

Please add to the list if you know of any other organizations and please reblog. All organizations listed are great ways to give sadaqa and should qualify for zakat as they are ran by Muslims and are for Muslims.

pretsyfartsy:

The girl dressed in the drawing, it’s haram. So I guess this picture shows a true story. That they’re wrong for dressing like that. But please, a hoe? You have no right to call one a hoe.
Just to share knowledge, The Quran says that we should cover our aurat and that only our hands(palms) and face can be seen. Which means we have to wear our clothes, long sleeves. Not three quarters or t-shirt which majority are wearing right now. And we’re not allowed to dress nakedly. Yes, I’m not imam or anything but from what I’ve learnt, dressing tightly and showing your figure, is considered being naked as you’re showing people your body shape. And wearing a hijab, you have to cover your chest. 
And regarding the haram police, you’re not supposed to judge if someone is wrong, you’re not even allowed to say it’s a sin. It may be a sin written in the Quran, but you can’t say it to others as it’s between them and Allah. All you can do is advise them and tell them it’s wrong. You can’t say “You’s committing a sin by wearing tight clothing”, you have to tell them why it’s wrong.
etaminparis:

I mean I’m all for kind advice, but I’ve seen how the haram police works..and it’s almost as if they’re more focused on ridiculing/demeaning you rather than helping you for the sake of Allah.
zalia-ash:

     This little doodle I made represents something that’s caught my attention lately. I can’t help but notice all the hate within the Tumblr Ummah, especially for Hijabis. Heck, I didn’t even know the word ”Hoejabi” before I started Tumblr. I can’t believe how negative people here are.      It seems like most Muslimahs on this site are magnets for Haram Police. (Thankfully, no one has said anything to me yet, but I figure it’s just a matter of time.) It’s astonishing, really, to see people say these things. ”You use bad language”, ”Your posts are un-Islamic”, and for people that post pictures of themselves, ”Your clothes are too tight”, or ”You wear makeup” or ”You do your eyebrows”, all the way up to ”You’re a slut”, there seems to be no shortage of things these people find to nitpick. The most annoying part is that this rarely happens in real life, but people find safety to say things like this behind their screens, on anon.      My qestion to the Haram Police is: Who made you an authority? You’re not a mufti/shaykh/’alim/mullah/imam, you’re just some kid with a computer. Nobody gave you the power to evaluate someone’s Muslim-ness. You don’t know what’s in a person’s heart, and therefore, you have no right to pass judgement. If your intention is to help your fellow Muslims, them by all means, do so. But please do so in a manner that is respectful and uncondescending, because as of now, all you’re doing is bullying. There’s enough people in the world that hate us, and we’re not making it any better by hating each other.



I hate the term “hojabi”. It’s disgusting. There is a difference between quietly advising a sister that her clothing does not meet the requirements of hijab to going out of your way to hurt her feelings and call her a slut. When you call someone a hojabi, you’re not interested in guiding them, you’re interested in hurting and humiliating them. Your best bet is to give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they are new Muslims and offer to help them create a more modest look. If you’re really so concerned about helping them dress in accordance to the rules Allah outlines in His book, offer to BUY THEM AN ABAYA. You can get decent ones from Sunnahstyle or East Essence for under 50 bucks. It’s sadaqa and it would make much more of an impact than shaming them and being harsh. It would likely inspire them to dress more modestly and increase their iman and faith in Muslims if someone were to offer to help them instead of turn their noses up at them.
When I was a new Muslim, I looked almost identical to the picture. All I owned were skinny jeans and I wasn’t in a position to purchase any new clothes at the time. Alhamdulillah I had donations from older sisters at the masjid and eventually worked my way up to having a modest closet. You never know the real story. You can’t just assume she is dressing for attention. 
I just can’t get over how awful this is. How someone could have it in their heart to flat out call another Muslim a slut- to call anyone a slut- based off of their clothing is beyond me. Shape up, people. Don’t know any specific people to pull aside and give PROPER naseeah to? Don’t have anyone you can buy an abaya for? You can always donate to various Muslimah charities that send out abaya for sisters.
You can join the Muslimah FSOT Network  and make a post about wanting to give away abaya and other items for free or trade or sell for a small price.
You can also donate money and items to Muslimahs Covered With Care
And you can also donate money to hadiyah’s abayas to have hand made abaya sent out free of charge to sisters in need the world over. This is my personal effort and is a part of my abaya business. Alhamdulillah there have already been small donations and I am getting ready to sew and ship out the first of insha’Allah many free abaya.
So the next time you see a sister posting a picture of herself in what YOU would consider to be improper hijab, instead of anonymously messaging her and calling her a slut in so many other words, how about you personally message her and offer to send her a free abaya or two? You have no excuse now. I’ve given you THREE out of possibly several more options of making a positive impact on someones life. Make a choice.

pretsyfartsy:

The girl dressed in the drawing, it’s haram. So I guess this picture shows a true story. That they’re wrong for dressing like that. But please, a hoe? You have no right to call one a hoe.

Just to share knowledge, The Quran says that we should cover our aurat and that only our hands(palms) and face can be seen. Which means we have to wear our clothes, long sleeves. Not three quarters or t-shirt which majority are wearing right now. And we’re not allowed to dress nakedly. Yes, I’m not imam or anything but from what I’ve learnt, dressing tightly and showing your figure, is considered being naked as you’re showing people your body shape. And wearing a hijab, you have to cover your chest. 

And regarding the haram police, you’re not supposed to judge if someone is wrong, you’re not even allowed to say it’s a sin. It may be a sin written in the Quran, but you can’t say it to others as it’s between them and Allah. All you can do is advise them and tell them it’s wrong. You can’t say “You’s committing a sin by wearing tight clothing”, you have to tell them why it’s wrong.

etaminparis:

I mean I’m all for kind advice, but I’ve seen how the haram police works..and it’s almost as if they’re more focused on ridiculing/demeaning you rather than helping you for the sake of Allah.

zalia-ash:

     This little doodle I made represents something that’s caught my attention lately. I can’t help but notice all the hate within the Tumblr Ummah, especially for Hijabis. Heck, I didn’t even know the word ”Hoejabi” before I started Tumblr. I can’t believe how negative people here are.
     It seems like most Muslimahs on this site are magnets for Haram Police. (Thankfully, no one has said anything to me yet, but I figure it’s just a matter of time.) It’s astonishing, really, to see people say these things. ”You use bad language”, ”Your posts are un-Islamic”, and for people that post pictures of themselves, ”Your clothes are too tight”, or ”You wear makeup” or ”You do your eyebrows”, all the way up to ”You’re a slut”, there seems to be no shortage of things these people find to nitpick. The most annoying part is that this rarely happens in real life, but people find safety to say things like this behind their screens, on anon.
     My qestion to the Haram Police is: Who made you an authority? You’re not a mufti/shaykh/’alim/mullah/imam, you’re just some kid with a computer. Nobody gave you the power to evaluate someone’s Muslim-ness. You don’t know what’s in a person’s heart, and therefore, you have no right to pass judgement. If your intention is to help your fellow Muslims, them by all means, do so. But please do so in a manner that is respectful and uncondescending, because as of now, all you’re doing is bullying.

There’s enough people in the world that hate us, and we’re not making it any better by hating each other.

I hate the term “hojabi”. It’s disgusting. There is a difference between quietly advising a sister that her clothing does not meet the requirements of hijab to going out of your way to hurt her feelings and call her a slut. When you call someone a hojabi, you’re not interested in guiding them, you’re interested in hurting and humiliating them. Your best bet is to give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they are new Muslims and offer to help them create a more modest look. If you’re really so concerned about helping them dress in accordance to the rules Allah outlines in His book, offer to BUY THEM AN ABAYA. You can get decent ones from Sunnahstyle or East Essence for under 50 bucks. It’s sadaqa and it would make much more of an impact than shaming them and being harsh. It would likely inspire them to dress more modestly and increase their iman and faith in Muslims if someone were to offer to help them instead of turn their noses up at them.

When I was a new Muslim, I looked almost identical to the picture. All I owned were skinny jeans and I wasn’t in a position to purchase any new clothes at the time. Alhamdulillah I had donations from older sisters at the masjid and eventually worked my way up to having a modest closet. You never know the real story. You can’t just assume she is dressing for attention.

I just can’t get over how awful this is. How someone could have it in their heart to flat out call another Muslim a slut- to call anyone a slut- based off of their clothing is beyond me. Shape up, people. Don’t know any specific people to pull aside and give PROPER naseeah to? Don’t have anyone you can buy an abaya for? You can always donate to various Muslimah charities that send out abaya for sisters.

You can join the Muslimah FSOT Network  and make a post about wanting to give away abaya and other items for free or trade or sell for a small price.

You can also donate money and items to Muslimahs Covered With Care

And you can also donate money to hadiyah’s abayas to have hand made abaya sent out free of charge to sisters in need the world over. This is my personal effort and is a part of my abaya business. Alhamdulillah there have already been small donations and I am getting ready to sew and ship out the first of insha’Allah many free abaya.

So the next time you see a sister posting a picture of herself in what YOU would consider to be improper hijab, instead of anonymously messaging her and calling her a slut in so many other words, how about you personally message her and offer to send her a free abaya or two? You have no excuse now. I’ve given you THREE out of possibly several more options of making a positive impact on someones life. Make a choice.

Inner or outer modesty

A few years back I held an event at my university called ‘The War on Hijab’ and part of the event featured three Muslimahs on a panel discussion. One who wore niqab, one who wore modern hijab and one who wore traditional hijab. The ‘modern hijabi’ made a comment at one point to the effect of ‘if you don’t have it in here (pointing to her heart), don’t put it up here (pointing to her hijab)’.

At the time, I kind of understood where she was coming from: inner haya first, outer haya second. What I didn’t consider was how haya fluctuates daily in the same way that iman does. One day your level of haya can be very high and other days it can be lacking. Yet no one says that you have to have the highest of iman first before you can call yourself a Muslim. No one says that during periods of low iman that you should stop calling yourself a Muslim. So why do people perpetuate this notion of losing the hijab when you lose your haya?

Allah finishes the commandment for hijab (24:31) with

“And repent to Allah O believers, all of you, so that you may achieve success.”

The tafsir of this says:

﴿وَتُوبُواْ إِلَى اللَّهِ جَمِيعاً أَيُّهَ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تُفْلِحُونَ﴾

(And all of you beg Allah to forgive you all, O believers, that you may be successful.) means, practice what you are commanded in these beautiful manners and praiseworthy characteristics, and give up the evil ways of the people of Jahiliyyah, for the greatest success is to be found in doing what Allah and His Messenger command and avoiding what He forbids. And Allah is the source of strength.


Why is this important? Because After Allah commanded the hijab, He proved with this part of the ayat that following this commandment wouldn’t be the easiest. But to have patience and ‘practice’ what He has commanded and turn to him in repentance so that we may be successful.

I sometimes think that when we look at 24:31 that we aren’t taking heed of this last part. Allah is telling us to practice hijab and repent daily for any wrongdoings. And as this ayat clearly demonstrates, hijab is more than just the outer covering, it is our entire personality as well. No one is going to be perfect 100% of the time. Practice hijab. Practice haya. And turn to Allah in repentance so that you may be successful.

So where is this notion of inner modesty first coming from? Shaytan. No doubt about it. It’s Shaytan playing with our naffs and leading us to believe that we aren’t good enough to be practicing hijab at all. It’s the whisperings of Shaytan when we draw comparisons between hijabis and non-hijabis, ‘Well. She isn’t covered and she’s way more modest than she (the covered sister) is. I don’t need hijab to be a good Muslim. I don’t even think I’m pious enough for hijab anyway’ This type of thinking not only pushes sisters away from hijab by allowing them to think that they might not be good enough for it and also allows for some sisters to believe that hijab isn’t even necessary at all.

Sisters, there are is no prerequisite for hijab. There is no set bar of piety you must reach before you wear hijab. There is no yard stick to measure whether or not you are good enough for hijab. Hijab is for all believing women and if it were not, Allah would have said that we need to meet this and this requirement first.

Hijab is a struggle.
Haya is a struggle.
Iman is a struggle.

Don’t let Shaytan tell you that you’re not ready for hijab. If you were ready to take shahadah, you are ready for hijab.

hadiyahsabayas:

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alif-lam-meem:

Girls can’t pray with pants right? So, would that include sweats and like shalwar kameez and all?

If you have an abaya it is best to pray in that. That’s the opinion out there. But when pants are talked about, I think it’s referring to western style jeans, which are very revealing. The idea is to be modest and not dress like the opposite gender. Shalwar kameez is a different story. In the countries where it is the most popular, it is considered to be just as feminine as the abaya. The men’s pants tend to be more straight cut whereas the women’s are more billowy and loose. (there are some newer ones which are very much like leggings. nevermind those obviously) And the tunics that come with them can be loose as well and if not, then there is always the dupatta that goes with it, which almost acts as a jilbab would anyway. It is clothing in layers, which the prophet (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said was preferred. Do the women in these countries have access to the abaya? That I’m not sure of. Though I doubt it as common as it is in other places. Obviously the abaya is preferred so if you have a choice over the two to pray in, choose the abaya. But this doesn’t mean one can’t pray in shalwar kameez if it is modest and covers.

And as I’ve already alluded to, gender is socially constructed. So what is masculine in one country might not be considered masculine in another. In this case, pants. The pants we are talking about are highly feminine and in some rural areas of these lands, they may not have ever seen an abaya. Does this mean their prayer is invalid? Absolutely not. Because what they are wearing is not resembling that of the opposite gender and is covering their bodies well.

salamseeker:

the-reall-her:

fakeunicorns:

oppressedbrowngirlsdoingthings:

taarrad7in:

Seriously?
This was one of my favourite fb pages too.
smh.

oh HELL no

excuse me?
so i’m going to hell because i choose not to cover my head….
good to know

oh same?Didn’t know facebook groups were allowed to make up their own rules in religion? 

Okay.There are several problems with what is written here.1- The assumption that Muslim women that don’t wear the Hijab are automatically shifted into the Hellfire.I mean, who cares about the reason behind it. Who cares if they’ve prayed constantly, given to charity, made hajj after hajj. Who cares if they have done 100x the amount of worship a Hijabi has done.Clearly our religion has come down to what we wear.2- It is suggested that the REASON why the Hellfire is hot and Paradise is beautiful… is because of women wearing/not wearing the Hijab?This is just such an Islamicly wrong statement to make. It’s nice that this person has been gifted with knowing just what ALLAH swt was thinking when He created those places! Authoo Billahi Mina Shaytan arajeeem!3- Putting our religion down to sterotypes of appearance.“Girls without Hijab are HOT”“Girls with Hijab are Beautiful”I’m speaking under the assumption that when it was said girls with Hijab are “Hot” that the OP meant that women who don’t wear Hijab dress provocatively, immodestly. I’ve seen non Hijabis wearing long skirts and long shirts.I’ve seen “Hijabis” wearing skinny jeans, the highest heels you ever did see, and tops that look like it’s been painted on. So I’m sorry, but this sterotype isn’t working here.We are all WOMEN, regardless of our clothes. We are all precious, we are all valuable. To express otherwise is downgrading- not to mention offensive, to all of us.No doubt Hijab is an obligation. And an important one.But it is not a hall pass to Jannah.Neither is a non Hijabi getting a hall pass to the Hellfire.We are allowed to judge in wordly matters alone.We are NOT allowed to do Allah’s (swt) job for Him. We have no right.He’s the only one who can throw people in the Hellfire. He’s the only one who gets to decide who goes to Jannah.Not us. We are NOT qualified to make that decision. OPs post was full of arrogance.And arrogance is a punishable disease in Islam.May we all be Guided, Ameen.

Everything salamseeker has said here but I do want to go ahead and make an observation about all of this. While ignoring a commandment from Allah, such as not wearing the hijab or wearing it incorrectly, is not necessarily going to automatically put someone in the hellfire, it can actually lead to it. Ignoring the commandment of proper hijab is a sin. No doubt. So we should not ignore the minor sins because no matter how much charity you give, no matter how many times you’ve been on hajj, no matter how much you have prayed, etc. etc. there is always the one bad deed that could tip the scales in the favor of the hellfire. You never know. Our Lord is merciful but this doesn’t mean we should disregard this and that of what He has asked of us and just bank on His mercy. We should be mindful of our daily deeds. Wearing proper hijab is a daily good deed and not wearing or wearing improper hijab is a daily bad deed- a minor sin. 
The prophet (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) has said of minor sins:

“Beware of the minor sins which are often thought of as insignificant, for they are like a group of people who stopped in the bottom of a valley. One of them brought a stick, and another brought a stick, until they had gathered enough to cook their food. These minor sins, if a person is called to account for them, will destroy him.”
“Beware of minor sins, for they will pile up until they destroy a person.” 
Reported by Ahmad (5/331) and others
So even though this status was highly offensive and all of that, it does have some truth to it and instead of having fits of rage over it, we should look at the deeper meaning here, which is to beware of minor sins and most of all to fear Allah. When you look at it that way, it’s hard to get upset over.
The most hated speech to Allah is when a man says to another man, ‘Fear Allah!’ and he replies, ‘Worry about your own self!’ 
[It was reported by Al-Asbahaanee in At-Targheeb (#739), and Sheikh Albani authenticated it in Silsilatul-Ahaadeethis-Saheehah (#2598)
 

salamseeker:

the-reall-her:

fakeunicorns:

oppressedbrowngirlsdoingthings:

taarrad7in:

Seriously?

This was one of my favourite fb pages too.

smh.

oh HELL no

excuse me?

so i’m going to hell because i choose not to cover my head….

good to know

oh same?
Didn’t know facebook groups were allowed to make up their own rules in religion? 

Okay.
There are several problems with what is written here.

1- The assumption that Muslim women that don’t wear the Hijab are automatically shifted into the Hellfire.
I mean, who cares about the reason behind it.
Who cares if they’ve prayed constantly, given to charity, made hajj after hajj.
Who cares if they have done 100x the amount of worship a Hijabi has done.
Clearly our religion has come down to what we wear.

2- It is suggested that the REASON why the Hellfire is hot and Paradise is beautiful… is because of women wearing/not wearing the Hijab?
This is just such an Islamicly wrong statement to make. It’s nice that this person has been gifted with knowing just what ALLAH swt was thinking when He created those places!
Authoo Billahi Mina Shaytan arajeeem!

3- Putting our religion down to sterotypes of appearance.
“Girls without Hijab are HOT”
“Girls with Hijab are Beautiful”
I’m speaking under the assumption that when it was said girls with Hijab are “Hot” that the OP meant that women who don’t wear Hijab dress provocatively, immodestly.
I’ve seen non Hijabis wearing long skirts and long shirts.
I’ve seen “Hijabis” wearing skinny jeans, the highest heels you ever did see, and tops that look like it’s been painted on. 
So I’m sorry, but this sterotype isn’t working here.
We are all WOMEN, regardless of our clothes. We are all precious, we are all valuable. To express otherwise is downgrading- not to mention offensive, to all of us.


No doubt Hijab is an obligation. And an important one.
But it is not a hall pass to Jannah.

Neither is a non Hijabi getting a hall pass to the Hellfire.

We are allowed to judge in wordly matters alone.

We are NOT allowed to do Allah’s (swt) job for Him. We have no right.
He’s the only one who can throw people in the Hellfire. He’s the only one who gets to decide who goes to Jannah.
Not us. We are NOT qualified to make that decision. 

OPs post was full of arrogance.
And arrogance is a punishable disease in Islam.

May we all be Guided, Ameen.

Everything salamseeker has said here but I do want to go ahead and make an observation about all of this. While ignoring a commandment from Allah, such as not wearing the hijab or wearing it incorrectly, is not necessarily going to automatically put someone in the hellfire, it can actually lead to it. Ignoring the commandment of proper hijab is a sin. No doubt. So we should not ignore the minor sins because no matter how much charity you give, no matter how many times you’ve been on hajj, no matter how much you have prayed, etc. etc. there is always the one bad deed that could tip the scales in the favor of the hellfire. You never know. Our Lord is merciful but this doesn’t mean we should disregard this and that of what He has asked of us and just bank on His mercy. We should be mindful of our daily deeds. Wearing proper hijab is a daily good deed and not wearing or wearing improper hijab is a daily bad deed- a minor sin.

The prophet (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) has said of minor sins:

“Beware of the minor sins which are often thought of as insignificant, for they are like a group of people who stopped in the bottom of a valley. One of them brought a stick, and another brought a stick, until they had gathered enough to cook their food. These minor sins, if a person is called to account for them, will destroy him.”

“Beware of minor sins, for they will pile up until they destroy a person.”

Reported by Ahmad (5/331) and others

So even though this status was highly offensive and all of that, it does have some truth to it and instead of having fits of rage over it, we should look at the deeper meaning here, which is to beware of minor sins and most of all to fear Allah. When you look at it that way, it’s hard to get upset over.

The most hated speech to Allah is when a man says to another man, ‘Fear Allah!’ and he replies, ‘Worry about your own self!’

[It was reported by Al-Asbahaanee in At-Targheeb (#739), and Sheikh Albani authenticated it in Silsilatul-Ahaadeethis-Saheehah (#2598)




 

The sister makes it clear in the beginning that this is not for brothers to be watching. So don’t click if you’re not a sister. What’s with brothers watching hijab tutorials anyway? o.O

ANYWAY.

I really like her introduction to this video about taking note of when to use these hijab styles and when not to. Her hijab tutorials have always been reeeeeeaaaally out there and are definitely not appropriate for the masjid or other mixed environments. I think a hijab style like this with an abaya would be appropriate for going to and from a women only event, so long as you’re not out in public too much to get there and back. Anyway. Just sharing because I really admired the way she addressed this subject and how she made the initiative to change some things about how she was wearing hijab in public. Masha’Allah.

theuncolonizedmind:

sharquaouia:

It all started this morning when Kawlture suggested we feature the Foreign Policy issue cover on our blog, the Mainstream Media and the Orient. I was on my phone and could not see the cover clearly. At first, I thought it was blackface, but upon zooming in and reading the the featured article title by Mona Eltahawy, my eyes weren’t fooling me. It really was a woman covered in a black body-painted niqab. 

They tell you don’t judge a book by its cover. But I, as an Arab-American Muslim woman, could not get that image out of my head long enough to even begin reading Mona’s article. I kept thinking about how the image degraded and insulted every woman I know that wears or has ever worn the niqab. The face veil is rooted in pre-Islamic history, and I’m not going to delve into it. If you want a more comprehensive read, I recommend Leila Ahmed’s Women and Gender in Islam.

Today, those who are fixated on the niqab believe that focusing on what a Muslim woman wears is what defines her thought, her intellect, her capabilities, her sexuality, her gender, her very existence. It’s a narrative that’s been framed by the West and fed by the likes of Qasim Amin and even Hoda Sha’rawi. FP’s decision to chose this photograph of a naked woman with a body-painted niqab embodies this problematic narrative in more ways than one:

  1. This inherent sexualization of the niqab through the pose and exposure of the female form revives the classic harem literature and art, presenting the Arab and/or Muslim woman as “exotic” and “mysterious,” but still an object. An object lacking the agency to define herself, thus defined by others.
  2. All of the women close to me who wear the niqab do so for different reasons. One friend only wears the niqab when she goes protesting because she feels comfortable in it. Another friend has worn the niqab, against the will of her family, since she was 14 out of her own free will. The representation of the niqab as splattered body paint on a naked woman degrades the decision of women who wear the niqab as a choice.
  3. The feature of an Arab woman’s article on the front cover does not justify the editorial choice to use the image. Mona Eltahawy was notoriously owned during a debate over the niqab ban in France, where she took the position in favor of the ban. Her stance on the niqab is convenient to the narrative being perpetuated by the problematic image.

But I digress. On to Mona’s article, titled “Why Do They Hate Us.” As a writer, I’m aware that editors sometimes propose titles, but they usually inform writers of that change. At least, that was my experience with Foreign Policy (it was a piece they never published). However, immediately, the title sets off an alarm: the use of the first-person-plural. The first-person-plural can be appropriately used when the speaker has been elected to speak on behalf of the group they are speaking on behalf of. In this case, the “They” being Arab societies and “Us” being Arab women. Mona’s self-appointed representation of Arab women is neither professional nor accurate. While I sincerely value the freedom of self-expression and have not one problem with her expressing her views, but to do so on the behalf of all Arab women is enraging.

Her article presents a summary and background of the treatment of women in the region, paired with statistics and specific examples of cases from countries throughout the region, fluffed with emotional rhetoric, ending with a call for fighting against injustices. Every now and then, a different image of the nude woman with the body-painted niqab interrupts the commentary, fueling the rage all over again. 

She includes bits like:

“I’ll never forget hearing that if a baby boy urinated on you, you could go ahead and pray in the same clothes, yet if a baby girl peed on you, you had to change. What on Earth in the girl’s urine made you impure? I wondered. Hatred of women.”

And,

“The Islamist hatred of women burns brightly across the region — now more than ever.”

Also,

“But at least Yemeni women can drive. It surely hasn’t ended their litany of problems, but it symbolizes freedom.”

Concluding with,

“We are more than our headscarves and our hymens. Listen to those of us fighting. Amplify the voices of the region and poke the hatred in its eye.”

The entire article is framed in a way that portrays Arab women as helpless, and in need of rescue and protection. It’s a convenient narrative for FP’s mostly Western-based readership. No mention ofTawakul Karman,ZainabandMaryam al-Khawaja, etc.—women who rose through the revolutions and were present in the public sphere during protests and demonstrations, standing alongside their compatriots demanding change and an end to injustices of all kinds. These women stood up as individuals and not as self-proclaimed representatives of Arab women.

Mona points to “hate” as the source and cause of the injustices committed against Arab women. She scapegoats the rise of the Islamists, butMaya Mikdashi debunked that argument a couple months ago:

“Gender equality and justice should be a focus of progressive politics no matter who is in power. A selective fear of Islamists when it comes to women’s and LGBTQ rights has more to do withIslamophobia than a genuine concern with gender justice. Unfortunately, Islamists do not have an exclusive license to practice patriarchy and gender discrimination/oppression in the region. The secular state has been doing it fairly adequately for the last half a century.”

Yet, she entirely neglects the socioeconomic roots of gender inequality, the rise of authoritarian regimes in a post-colonialist context, the remnants of dehumanization and oppression from colonialism, the systematic exclusion of women from the political system or those who are used as convenient tools for the regime. There is more to gender inequality than just “hate.”

The true fight should be against the monolithic representation of women in the region, illustrated by an over-sexualized image of splattered black paint over a nude body. This does nothing to rectify the position of women in ANY society. 

Thank the Lord. Oh God. This is perfect. EVERYONE READ THIS.

Please read all of this and reblog it.

Why do all the hijabis want to wear high heels though?

The Olive Night Abaya set IS very comfortable and necessary to survive in the summer heat as a hijabi and it’s also super cheap right now (until 4/21) and won’t be cheap again unless I have a coupon for the fabric or it goes on sale. TAKE ADVANTAGE.

On hindsight, now that I have taken that step, I find it puzzling that, out of all the commandments of Allah, wearing the hijab is probably the most discussed and often, the most resisted. I am making a broad assumption here – that sisters who are considering the hijab are more or less cognisant and accepting of the other commandments of Allah – such as prayer, fasting, abstaining from certain actions and are otherwise steadfast (or try to be). Hence, they accept the truth of Islam. Yet when it comes to complying with something related to appearance, there is massive hesitation.

The issue of hijab is one that many practising Muslimahs find difficult to implement. We do not see forums which discuss people’s personal journeys towards Salah, or journey away from backbiting, envy, stinginess or riba; these things are not extensively discussed, simply because we accept them as the absolute truth. There is nothing to discuss, and implementation is done on a personal level. One would be quite astonished to stumble across posts proclaiming that “for twenty years, I have understood the importance of charity, but resisted, and now I accept and just made a donation!”, or “Gossip free for 3 months now, Alhamdulillah!”……….

Plucking eyebrows question

Wa alaikum asalam. I’m fine. Thanks for asking! Anyway. In response to what this girl has said, I would have asked her what qualifies her to be a muhadditha. Seriously. Because the last greatest muhaddith of our lifetime passed away in 1998. Here’s what he and others had to say: 

www.al-athariyyah.com/media/pdf/sisters/adjusting_eyebrows.pdf

The hadith is authentic. Why take a gamble with something like this? It says that Allah has cursed these women. Do we really want to sit there and take such a risk over an honestly UGLY fashion trend? Thin and shaped eyebrows can’t hold a candle to full and natural looking eyebrows. It is a timeless look.

Speaking of things that are timeless- Islam. So let’s run with what this girl was saying for a moment. If not plucking the eyebrows was used to distinguish the Muslimah from the disbelieving woman, as was the hijab and the niqab, then why would we stop doing this today? We still wear the hijab and the niqab, no? We still maintain that imitating the disbelievers makes us a disbeliever as well, no? So why carry over the hijab and the niqab and leave the natural eyebrows in the past? It does not make sense. Not one bit. If you happen to run into these sisters again, I strongly recommend that you advise them of all of this. Perhaps even give them the pdf I shared as well.

dawud-salafee-talibulilm:

I mean I feel sisters say these things with images in their heads of them snuggling up to a big bearded brother who wears a white thobe and two small kids on their laps. Alhamdulilah good dream? You want a man who will take you closer to your lord? You even go so far as to say you ONLY want a man who is upon the Sunnah. UPON SALAFEE, YA’NEE.

SubhanaAllah wal Hamdulilah! Beautiful dream!

But is that all it is….a dream?

DO YOU REALLY want to marry someone like An Nabi SalAllahu Alehi Wasalaam? Think about that? DO YOU REALLY want to marry a pious brother? Think about it. Look at the example of our beloved Shaykh Muqbil(RahimahuAllah) who did not even know what an aquarium was??? He thought it was a TV! So he left the house fleeing the sin!

What about a Shaykh al Albaani??? Studying books upon books of hadeeth some 12hrs a day? eh? DO YOU REALLY want to marry men, LIONS, of the Sunnah?

Im asking you, O my sisters, do you love your fashion? your make up? Your TV? Your Pictures? What will be your affair when your husband forbids the television in his house? What of the pictures quoting to you the hadeeth “The angels do not enter a house where there is a picture”?

Ya Ahkwaat fi Islaam! What truly is your want for a husband? Because if you say it is a Student! A Salafee-a true follower of the Prophet and his companions, then know it wont be easy. Then be prepared for your husband to forbid things you maybe accustomed to!

Will you disobey him because he tells you he does not wish for you to leave the house unless you are with a mahram(or due to a need)?

What about when you have NO television and he wants to go over the book of Allah, or the books of Ilm in this free time? Eh?

What truly do you know of marrying a man upon deen besides what you have concocted from too many “fiqh of love” duroos by individuals and the westernization of your ways in America, Uk, and other than them?

Do you really want a Muhammad? A Salafee? A pious man?

Or do you just want marriage.

Think about it.

Masha’Allah! One of the best post I’ve seen from you in a while. Sisters, really take heed of what the brother is saying here. I’ve lived it! It was a struggle at first but Alhamdulillah I have grown to understand and appreciate where my husband is coming from and agree with him. Allah bless him for it. And may Allah bless us all with spouses of equal levels of piety and iman. Aameen.

I will never understand the logic behind posting your outfit of the day under the Islam and Muslims tags.

#hijab #hijabi #niqab #niqabi  #muslimah #abaya #modesty #fashion

Your outfit of the day belongs in these tags not #Islam #Muslims #Quran or any other irrelevant tag you place under your maxi dress and cardigan and your smiling hijabi face.

Thank you.